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June 05, 2017

PELAJARAN HARI INI

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Pagi ini mataku kembali dibukakan.
Bukan mata yang secara harafiah, melainkan mata hatiku.
Mata hati yang sudah lama tertutup, yang haus akan wawasan, yang ingin mengekplorasi dunia.
Bukan dunia yang tepat di depan mataku, melainkan dunia yang tersembunyi, yang luput dari pandanganku sehari-hari. Yang bersembunyi dalam gemerlapnya ibukota, terselip dibalik tinggi dan mewahnya gedung-gedung kota metropolitan.

Kali ini pandanganku terhenti di antara deretan bangunan-bangunan kumuh di suatu tempat yang mungkin jarang terjamah, bahkan luput dari mereka yang menghabiskan kegiatannya hanya di dalam gedung-gedung mewah bertingkat itu.
Tak ada yang dapat kukatakan menarik di disana. Hanya deretan gubuk, bahkan tak dapat kusebut gubuk.
Pernahkah kau makan di sebuah warung tenda di pinggir jalan? Seperti itulah tempat yang mereka sebut sebagai istana bagi mereka. Tempat untuk beristirahat dan berteduh.
Tak ada pintu atau jendela disana, semua terlihat sama, hanya tertutup karung-karung bekas.
Pandangan ini sekali lagi membuatku terenyuh. Melihat mereka beristirahat tanpa beban, bahkan beberapa diantaranya terlihat nyaman tidur dengan hewan-hewan liar di sana. Terlihat ada pula yang memeluk sebuah boneka besar yang mungkin sebelumnya bukanlah miliknya, tapi ia nyaman di sana.

Beberapa di antaranya asik bercengkrama, tak tahu apa yang mereka bahas, tapi kulihat adanya keakraban disana, ketulusan, kekeluargaan. Tak seperti yang kulihat di dalam gedung-gedung bertingkat. Suasana ini lah yang dirindukan.
Seakan begitu menikmati pemandangan yang kuanggap luar biasa ini, bahkan tak sempat aku abadikan momen2 itu. Bukan, bukan diabadikan untuk dicemooh, melainkan sebagai bentuk pembelajaran bahwa masih ada kehidupan lain di luar sana, kehidupan yang damai, yang mungkin menyayat hati orang2 yang tak biasa melihatnya, tapi membuat kita belajar.

Belajar mensyukuri hidup yang Tuhan berikan, belajar menghargai apa yang kita miliki, belajar untuk tidak mudah menyia-nyiakan sesuatu.

Mungkin banyak di antara kita yang terkadang belum menerima kondisi kita saat ini, ingin rasanya berandai2. Jika keluargaku bukan mereka, jika saja dari awal aku tidak perlu mengenalnya, atau seandainya aku bisa memiliki ini itu dan masih banyak lagi. Tapi semua itu tidak bisa kita tukar dan minta semaunya, karena semua adalah pemberianNya.
Bukan suatu kebetulan Tuhan menempatkan kita di suatu kondisi, bukan sebuah kebetulan juga Tuhan menghadirkan setiap orang dalam hidup kita.
Ia mau kita belajar, belajar menerima, memahami, dan yang terpenting adalah bersyukur tapi tidak berpuas diri. Dengan bersyukur kita dapat lebih rendah hati dan terbuka menerima keadaan, sedangkan berpuas diri akan mendatangkan kesombongan.

Sudahkah kita bersyukur hari ini?





*Ini lah alasan mengapa tadi pagi saya mengupdate postingan di Insta story saya dan mengucapkan terima kasih kepada salah satu driver ojek online.
Jika saja saya tidak memutuskan untuk berangkat lebih awal tadi pagi, jika saja jalanan tidak  pada merayap dan jika saja motor si bapak tidak mogok, mungkin saya tidak akan mendapatkan pengalaman baru hari ini. Semua sudah ada dalam rencanaNya.

NB: Translate soon in English...


September 11, 2015

HOLITRIP (EP 1) : BANGKA ISLAND (PART 1)

Holla, long time no see right? :D

It's about 3 or 4 months I haven't update any post yet, because of I have to focus on my university last semester's project and test and also I'm going for a holiday trip with my family and some friends.
So, during this week, I will give you guys an update from my trip. There's a lot of great views that I captured and I also got new partner now for my trip (this is the best gift everrr from my mom! *lol) but I also use my money too to pay the half :')

Here we go! Let's check out! :)



When we're waiting in Airport.



First time when we just arrived in Bangka, we went to Pasir Padi Beach in Pangkal Pinang, then continued our trip to Bangka Botanical.





When we were at Bangka Botanical, I found some place just similar with South Korea *lol. Have you guys ever watch Korean drama? If you've, you guys can compare it with some of my photo :)

Next was.....
I don't know how to called it in Indonesian languange or in English, but Bangka's people called it Phak Kak Liang (Phak = White; Kak = Stone/Chalk; Liang =Slope) --> You guys can compare it by yourself :D This place was build hundred years ago but still beautiful and sturdy.





Ignore ma face :') The view was great enough!

Next was...
Batu Dinding (Wall of Stone) It's called like that because there's a lot of huge stones everywhere (along the way of that place) and it similar with walls..



Batu Dinding contains of highland and beach, so it combine two different place at the same location.

Okay! There's the half part of my trip to Bangka.. Let us continue it tomorrow *make you guys curious first :3 I have some adding photos for you guys, hope you like it *I got it when I was visit my uncle house :)

Love Birds <3









Continue to the next post...
Thank you for visit :)

June 09, 2015

NEW HANGOUTERS

Hello there! Welcome back with me after almost a year I have not post anything here :') Miss me right? :p
Here's post about my hangout friend and me (there's also +Margareta Vania  too #lol). Don't need many words to say, just enjoy the photos :)

*Some new posts and video will coming soon ;)































Thankyou for visit, LOVE YA! HAVE A GREAT DAY ;)

August 04, 2014

LITTLE THING I FOUND

Hello there.. I'm back! Want to share something interesting :3

Nowadays many people get busy with their own bussiness and does not have spare time to do some relaxing activities, like going to spa, watching on cinema or shopping. Anyone who loves shopping here? So do I *lol
We can't deny that everyone loves shopping, especially girls and women.. We have a lot of stuffs and outfits in our wardrobe but we never feel that's enough for us! *lol

BUT........ How can we go for shopping when we have a lot of things to do? That's why nowadays everyone has another alternative, it's called 'online shopping'. Online shopping help you to shop everything you need without make you to go far away to the place where sell something that you need. You also don't need to waste your time and money too!

I feel some benefits by shopping on online shop/store, such as I can find the unique stuff with reasonable price and good quality which I couldn't found in any real stores that I go. Also, I can compare the stuff price's before I want to buy it *to see that the stuff worth to spend or  not* :p

Many kinds of online shops in our country and one of them always makes me interest to check it everyday. It's named ZALORA. I know this online store is famous too and have many branches in some country, such as in Indonesia. Then, I want to share some unique things that I found while I was going to search a new stuff to bought. When I was opened the accessories side, I felt interesting with all the ring's collection, you guys also can check it by open this link >> CLICK HERE :3
Maybe, I will but some of their collections and post it soon! *lol

Ok, hope that's all can help you guys a little for reference to buy some cute or unique accessories especially for girls or women who love rings and some people who want to give a special present to their love one :)
Have a great Monday people! LOVE YA! <3



Contact : lisastefanny95@gmail.com

August 03, 2014

THE ONE WHO LEFT

"Everyone will have similar stories in her/his life but will never same exactly as the others, because every stories has the unique things in it which make it different.."-Lisa Stefanny

When I was in high school I had one friend that made my life become more meaningful. 
We almost knew about 3-4months but our friendship feels like 5 years *lol
When I was with him, I never think about pain, love or anything which would make me down.
He always there to support me and listen to all my stories..
Actually, he is not the same year as mine, but he's 4 years older than me. Let's put his nickname, he's N.

The first time when we knew each other is when I had a crush and a step brother who's the same class with N. Our first conversation is about my crush and my step brother. When I tell him a story about them, he's so exciting to hear and sometimes he gave me some advice when I asked him.
Well.. some people missunderstood our friendship and thought that we were in a relationship, but actually we didn't. *Sometimes mostly people will think that when 2 person (boy and girl) have a close-relationship, they will said that they're dating* LOL

The unforgetable things that happen in our friendship is we have something that can remember us for each other *everyone has it on their friendship, hehe*
He's birthday is more earlier than mine, so I decided to give him something unique and different, the thing that can be bought buy money but precious. Because at that time I'm a type of person who think that friendship is everything, more important than a dating. (If now, it's different after many things that happen during my life time *lol)
So, I gave him my painting with the quote inside.. In fact, I made the painting about year ago, but N deserve it because he's my trully friend that I ever had at that time :) He gave me a t-shirt on my birthday.. Everyone has it but it's so meaningful to me *when I actually didn't wish that I got something from him, but that was surprise!*



The saddest part is before his graduate from High School he left all his friends including me, without anyone noticed. His little brother still studying there about 3 or 6 months after his left. But never told where his brother was going.. Honestly, miss him so badly :( Until now, I never know where he is.. Hope he read this post. *Yeah, I'm getting speechless now..
Although I have one new bestfriend there, but it never be the same story as we make at that time.. At least, please appear in front of me and tell where do you go for all this time and the reasons that you left without tell anybody else *or only me who never know it? :/ (Become more serious now *gettin' melancolic #LOL)
Phew... Then, that's my story for today..

Thanks to all visitors who read my blogpost today, have a great weekend! 
LOVE YA!! <3

Anyone who wants to share your story can send me your email to :
lisastefanny95@gmail.com

June 28, 2014

I CALL HIM DAD



Hello guys, I want to share something..
I know my daddy's birthday is too far from now (his Oct 10th), but tonight my blog's inspiration came from my dad..
Think that since I was a kid and we had a lot of "arguing time" and I have said that I really hate my dad, but actually from deepest of my heart I will say that I love him so much, no matter what he did..
I know he is stubborn, emotional, sometimes do violence, talkative every minute, but no one can replace him in my life..
All the bad things that I have mention above is just his past.. Now, he already change :) *Although he's still talkative and stubborn :3 LOL

Actually, I don't want to talking about the bad things, I want to share my sweetest memories with my dad. Just now, I was wrote a letter and I will put it in here (this all my opinion, my feelings and my emotion about him) :
"We fight, we argue almost everyday..
Sometimes I hate you,
but I know it is not trully came from my heart.
No one do like yours,
picked me up since I was in kindergarten (dulu sempet bela-belain naik becak buat jemput gue :'))
took me for a walk in the afternoon when I was a kid,
buy me some pets, because both of us really love animals (sampe dulu bokap bela-belain nolongin cicak yang kena lem tikus :'))
teach me how to be brave,
keep angry to me when I fight with my siblings or my friends because you know that I was the strongest one,
jealous when I hangout with other boys that you don't know,
when I try to backstreet from you and mom, you still know that and your eyes looks like 'everywhere' *lol
give me advise about life and love, because you really want the best for me,
No other guys will do that exactly as you had done for me..
Worry about me when I come late to home and keep waiting in living room.
Sometimes when I told you a lie, you just keep quite and you are not angry..
and I know that you already know :)
You treat other children who is not your trully kid very well, but I know your love for you kid and your little family is the biggest, the deepest and unreplaceable..
There is no one can replace you..
You are my hero, my guide, my eagle eye, my man.....
Yes, I should proudly call you MY DAD and hope someday my man will do the best as you do to our family :) "

That's all my letter for my dad, I know he will not see this (because he never using internet) *lol* but someday I will told him :)
We are born by our parents, no matter what they do, just thanks to them.. Although we have spend our bad times with them, keep trust that there is a little happiness in a sadness, there's love in hate, light in darkness, and there's medicine for all pains. JUST BELIEVE AND NEVER BE PESIMIST, CHEER UP! :)

Thankyou for visit and read my blog post today, have a great day people! LOVE YA!


June 18, 2014

WHY I LOVE MY CHILDHOOD

Why I love my childhood?

1. You'll be love
No one will ignore you, everyone will love your cuteness.. *you can see my little picture #lol

Basically, every baby or little kid is pretty cute :3 I remember when everyone say that I'm cute and they want to hug me, but at that time I was just too mothercomplex (too loving my mother too much)
But now, you can see.. ppl will think twice to be friend with you *ppl nowadays are too pilih2 (selective) -..-

2. No need responsibility
When you just a little kid, no one will put some big deal with you because they were know that you would not able to do that alone. You don't need to work hard. You just a kid, just need to play, eat, do shower and sleep. :P

3. You'll be served like a little princess
Everything I need, my parents will give it. They will play with me, take care of me, tell a story or sing a song when I'm going to sleep..
But, when you grow up? Just serve by yourself please! *lol

4. No need to feel broken heart because of a guy
A little kid just play with everyone without think who they are. Play with some fun and freedom. All they think just "I like to play with him because he's fun and we can play many things!" I hug him and he hugs me without thinking that's all love and your parents just think that's cuteness overload! Lol *imagine when you do that when you grow up and see what your parents will do*

5. No more stressing deadline or homework
When I was in kindergarten, I loved to do my homework because all I did just to wrote abc...till z, 123 till 9  and drawing some random views and people like this..
You can compare with your college/university or your adult life now.. More homeworks, more deadline, especially when the date is nearly with your final exam *this fact that happens on my university*

You can see the different how difficult your teenage and adult life now and you going  to miss your childhood (sometimes) *lol

That's all my random post for today, thankyou for reading, LOVE YA! <3